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Real Woman & man

Some MCP has written this and someone posted it in his facebook wall. Oops, sorry for insulting the pig. Please read it as "Male Chauvinistic Poramboku".


A real woman always keeps her house clean and organized. The laundry basket is always empty. She's always well dressed, hair done. She never swears and behaves gracefully in all situations and all circumstances. She has more than enough patience to take care of her family, always has a smile on her lips and a kind word for everyone........


After reading this I remembered the movie "Stepford wives". In that movie, it is designed to show as if a woman desired to have such women around. But for all practical reasons, it is the lazy, untidy, DEPENDANT creatures who need such kinds of women as their wives. 


Maybe it should be more elaborate like this:
"I can't keep my house clean and organized. I will throw all my things and clothes in every direction and expect a woman behind to keep it clean and organized. I cant take part in it because I dont possess the instinct of cleanliness and neatness, nor do I have the capability to learn it in this lifetime. I cant keep my laundry basket empty as I cant even wash my own under garments. So I need someone to do the laundry.


I dont look good, nor do I possess the aesthetics to dress well. So I need atleast my better half to be well-dressed. I dont even have hair. So how can I do it well? So atleast let her hair be well-done. I will swear and curse all the men in the world insulting every woman I dont know of. So to balance my wrong doings, I need someone who does not swear and will behave gracefully in all situations protecting me from any stone throwings or adi thadi.


I will only eject something and there ends my duty. Oh yes, ofcourse I will claim the initials or the last name of the child. The rest she has to take care. She will have to bear the child for 9 months as anyway I dont have that capability. Even other actions, which I am capable of, I wont do. Why? Because I have the well-invested ego of a MAN! So I need a woman who has the patience to bear with such a moron like me and take care of everything about a family. I will act like a Hitler / Mussolini at home as everything should be MY way. Since the whole home should not turn out to be a hell, she should always have a smile on her lips and a kind word for everyone whom I keep bashing as I like".


Doesn't this description sound complete?


Ok, I dont want to waste my time describing the qualities of a perfect man as both words can never go together. So atleast let me just talk about a man. 


A man is someone who can earn his own living without taking a paise of dowry, treats his better half as his equal and consults every decision with his wife. He who will stand by his partner no matter what kind of problems come in. He who can LISTEN, not just hear. He who does not think he rules the world but shares the world with others. He who sees women other than his wife as his sister or mother. He who takes care and does the required of/for his children as an equal parent and is not only in the namesake (literally just in the name of the child). He who does not view his wife as a maid/cook/laundry woman like in the before description, but as a HUMAN BEING EQUAL to him. He who does not call names of another MAN's mother/sister (for no fault of theirs eg: Bxxxxxd) for the fault of that another MAN. 


He who is not the ABOVE is not a human, leave alone the pride in the gender one belongs to. Such creatures who do not possess these qualities are welcome to marry the gender of the same creature and not burden real women with the hell of bearing their bullshit.


Thankfully, I am blessed to find a REAL MAN as my husband and not stuck with such intolerable creatures.

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